In her O Magazine Oprah will often write a paragraph about some things about life that she knows for sure. I always enjoy reading this section of the magazine because often I think about what things about life and love am I really 100% sure about. Throughout my life I've learned important lessons from different people and I always file them away in my mind because ulitmately difficult times will arise and those life lessons always help me through them. So on this gorgeous sunny day in Portland here are just a few things that I know for sure:
- I have the right to change my mind. For a long time I thought that I had to hae everything in my life planned out. My career, my marriage, children - my planner is one of my best friends for heaven's sake! Planning is a way of life for me. However, I've recently learned that I have every right to change my mind any time I want to. I don't need to stick with a particular job for a few years to establish myself. If I wasn't happy or having fun in that job - what's the point? Try something new. Experiment and experience life. Let go of the stresses that you face and don't be afraid to change your mind. You have that right.
- Take the time to be grateful for at least 5 things everyday. My entire attitude towards life is transformed when you change your perspective. Don't focus on the negative - make note of the little joys. The stars, crickets, random acts of kindess, a phone call or email from a good friend. Make note of what you are grateful for and celebrate each day.
- Friendship is one of life's greatest gifts.
- No matter how much our hearts and spirits may get broken at times, each experience allows us to live a more thoughtful and fuller life.
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